What If…. I Never Learned This Backwoods Pitching Lesson From A NYC Hitting Coach?
What you need to know before getting started:
- This is the first of many short #Palooza18 posts I’ll be writing.
- You can search Twitter for the hash-tag #Palooza18 which was attended by over 400, to see the Behind The Scenes.
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Disclaimer: The Backwoods Pitching Lesson I Learned did not involve any of the following.
- Electrical tape..
- A banjo or…
- A white paneled van
Before I get to the story and explain how one of the hitting presenters at #Palooza18 dialed me in like a Native American Indian sun-dialing his watch…
I’ve got a few guidelines I adhere to when selecting my presenters for Pitch-a-Palooza.
- Be Real. If you act one way on social media and then another in person, no thanks.
- Be Cool. If you’re not the kinda guy willing to hang out in a room and talk shop with everyone, no thanks. But, don’t try to be Real Cool.
And finally…
Don’t introduce yourself to me in 3rd person, by introducing yourself as “Coach” unless it’s clearly legible on your birth certificate.
Simple.
Right?
Now, let’s start with the Backwoods Pitching Lesson here…
I can honestly say the lesson I’m about to share with you forever change the way I will communicate with my players.
And it just goes to show how important it is for you to step outside your comfort zone and reach out to those you follow and impact your thinking.
That’s what I did.
- I found this guy on Instagram and right away, recognized his genius in getting his players to buy-in, believe and trust his teachings.
- This guy is a master communicator and that’s why he was speaking at Pitch-a-Palooza.
But here’s what you need to know. (And it’s kinda crazy when you think about it.)
- The pitching lesson didn’t come from a pitching guru. Nope. I heard this from a fast talking, Puerto-Rican/Jewish hitting coach straight off the block of the NYC in the middle of the woods that kinda looked like a mix between Vin Diesel and Derek Jeter, but not really.
- And I didn’t learn this pitching lesson at the actual Palooza Event. Instead, this is what you call a backwoods pitching lesson in the kind of hollers where teeth are scarce and internet connection is scarcer.
Instead of hotels, I thought to myself…
“What If…I rented a log cabin and invited other speakers to stay with my family and right-hand men in Todd Alford and Jon Watson?
(No way in hell I could pull it off without these guys! )
And that’s what we did.
Eugene Bleeker, Zach DeChant, Todd Alford, Jason Ferber talking shop
We Air BnB’d a log cabin to fit 16 guys, so you can imagine we didn’t get much sleep.
So, the guy on my left is Jason Ferber. (If you don’t follow @CoachFerber on Instagram, you’re missing out… While you’re there follow me
And Jason says to me…
“Ever noticed how the BEST drills always begin with by you asking “What-If?”
What if… we tried this?
What if…. we tried that?
Genius!
WHAT IF….?
Take a second to think about how Powerful the concept of “WHAT IF…?” is to the development process!
Too often, we find ourselves believing as coaches that our job is to teach “How to”.
But that’s not it.
In fact, it’s the “How to” mentality that’s produced an entire generation of “Pitching Mech-addicts”.
It’s How to mentality that’s played a vital role with today’s players never trusting what they do and how they do it….instead they waste their time focusing on “How others” do it.
Let me put it this way…
- I’ve said time and time again, the most common mechanical flaws we see are Man-Made.
- The body would never naturally organize itself had it not been confused.
- You know the old saying…“It’s know what you know, but what the players’ understand, that matters.”
- Inefficient communication will always appear as inefficient movement.
So, instead of teaching How to….
“What If you started every sentence with What If…?
I’m betting you’re going to find more answers by asking.
Think about it.
Instead of the coach telling him what to do, he simply asks “What if…
- You held the ball this way?
- We tried to do this?
- Your feet started here?
What if….. (Insert what you want them to try and do)?
See where I’m going with this?
The Power of What If….
- Teaches pitchers to teach themselves.
- Helps Guide Exploration
- Gives the player PERMISSION TO FAIL!
- Encourages creativity
- Builds Trust and gives player a role in his own development.
- Gives the player ownership in his own development.
- Ensures “BUY IN” because you’re showing the BELIEF in them to ask them questions.
- Promotes self-discovery, trial and error, Mistake based learning
- Helps players step out of their comfort zone without fear of embarrassment or failing.
- Builds culture and life-long relationships.
And to all the parents out there, this gets you off the hook.
Why?
Because if he doesn’t get it right, it’s on him cause all you did was ask a simple question.
Plus…. It will drastically reduce the risk of your son becoming a Basement Boomer.
You know what I’m talking about….
The son that’s old enough to make anyone walking through the door uncomfortable.
All jokes aside…
What if teaches you to trust your instincts and promotes players learning to Trust what you FEEL!
Special thanks to @CoachFerber for impacting my thinking and honing better communication skills with my players!
Alright, we’re nearing the end of this post…
3 takeaways on player development I’ll leave you with:
Today’s game is driven by data, and that’s a good thing.
- But – if you can’t deliver the data, it’s useless . The key is delivering the data in a way the player understands and the more ownership, belief, love and power you can hand over to him, the more useful you just became as a coach and mentor.
- Finally, the fastest way to succeed is by learning how to fail.
- Create a culture mistake based learning and planned failures.
At the end of the day,
The Godfather of Pitching Mechanics, Paul Nyman summed up the player development process best…
Trust what you FEEL!
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“what if…?” is a phenomenal coaching tool that will allow creative thinking players the chance to invest even more into their careers and take even more ownership. Allowing players to ask “what if?’ not only engages them, it communicates to you their thoughts and feels, allowing a deeper understanding and connection.
The “what if” stems from a curiosity within the player, and that curiosity is born from a feeling that there’s a better way to do something AKA they haven’t untapped their potential. THEYRE INVESTED!! And now you are enabling them to act on their thoughts/feelings in an attempt to improve; “what if” could be introducing a new habit to the players life, the habit of independent thought and acting on that thought in the pursuit of excellence.
The inevitability of “What If” is that its going to lead to MORE “what ifs”, because they probably won’t get the feel they’re searching for correct the first time. But they will learn that each “what if” gets them one step closer to uncovering their “what if” dream-feel-drill. If they are off, they learn how to improve the process and progress; if they are correct, their success reinforces confidence in themselves for life, and their ability to execute this practice.
I’m all-in on “what if”
Great stuff Demetre!
I would add the use of “Pretend …” to compliment “What if …” as in Pretend you could hit your glove side spot with more ease. Kudos to Vin Diesel II and What IF bc we all get tired of being told what to do in life.
Lantz,
I’m sure my name never came up cuz you guys were doing your thing at the cabin, but Ive known and coached with Jason for a few years. He’s one of my favorite people on the planet. Glad you got to know him. I talked about you to him over the years. Just a super FUNNY individual.
Thank you for this post. I’ve been a huge advocate the past few years in trying to get my players to understand failure is a part of the game and use it as a learning tool but I really resonate with the “what if” aspect. It’s a really great way to approach training and gets them into a mentality that trying something is good…it may not always work but at least you can now understand why it may not have worked and add it to your toolbox. Thanks for the great post!
Great ideas, I like where this is going, Thank you .
great information!
love this, i will use with my players moving forward. this is a game of failure and if you understand how to correct yourself the easier it is to get better.
Awesome! especially love the owner ship part. Want to see more pitcher calling their own games, and believe this would help greatly. Helps translate loses are opportunities to learn.
Love the “What If”. As a wrestling coach I always have athletes asking well “what if”a guys does this during a move and we can show them. But I see how they are thinking. How we can apply that to baseball.